Why is it?

I am ranting. If I don't rant here, I'm going to rant somewhere else, and that could cause a huge argument where I don't really want one. Sometimes the "other" point of view just needs a little airing.

Why is it not acceptable to talk about your child's accomplishments if they surpass the "average"? It's okay to be concerned if they're behind, but oh my gosh let one WHIFF of intelligence be caught and next thing you know you're a braggart.

Why is it that you're looked upon as a pushy parent or guilty of not "letting your kids be kids" if your children are developing ahead of the curve? Holy crap - my girls only need so much time to play in the mud, guys! What about (for example) learning to identify numbers precludes fun?

There seems to be a whole attitude that "learning" isn't enjoyable or that you have to force it on kids. Most kids are born with a love of learning - grownups are the ones who screw it up and turn it into something to be dreaded or endured.

Yes, I do understand that at some point kids are going to have to get through unpleasant things that are difficult, boring, etc. But THAT will come with time, and with a better attitude toward learning and education, our kids will be better equipped to deal with that when it comes.